What would you rather do?
' And I still don't know what to say back to her. Just reading her messages takes so much energy to process those words and it triggered too much emotion that I couldn't handle. '
" You love her and you appreciate the sentiment that she reached out. I don't think it's the worst thing to tell her both those things. "
' I just want to hide away from everything back there related to him or my most imitmate group I guess. idk. '
" I hated seeing people in mine and Larry's friend group. I hated talking about the same topics or the old memories. I hated having to feel the same bullshit feelings of sadness and nostalgia and regret every time I talked to them. But slowly the mutual friends narrowed down. And the ones who stayed my friends-- we started talking about new memories, new shared interests. it's a miserable, drawn out process, but eventually, your experience with those people and memories will not all be tied to him. "
" You can cut ties with all those people, people do that all the time after a relationship. Or you can pick up the ones that matter to you. It's up to you. "
" Your life has great meaning, and there is something momentous about redefining your identity. Do not lose sight of that and the strength you gain as each day passes from the breakup. "